Responding to Abuse in the Pagan Community: a Wild Hunt Guest post

My guest post is up over on The Wild Hunt; it's on how the Pagan community can respond to the issue of child sexual abuse within our community.

For those who may not know, I was a psychotherapist for about twenty years, and my main focus was survivors of childhood sexual abuse. The focus of the Wild Hunt piece is on understanding the dynamics of childhood sexual abuse, and how to build in greater safety and responsiveness in our communities around this threat.

Comments

Yewtree said…

An excellent and well-considered post.

7:52 PM

Cat C-B (and/or Peter B) said…

Thank you.

*smile*

9:21 PM

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